Many absentee fathers have recently come forth to excuse their acts by claiming that they are always out of sight because they must provide appropriate and sustainable financial support for their families. Many dads have continued to justify this argument, which they hold dear to their hearts, despite the fact that many disagree.
One of the unfortunate consequences of leaving home so young is that the children are robbed of their father's love and devotion. This is because, the majority of the time, these youngsters wake up never seeing their father, and the cycle repeats itself in the evening, when most of them would have slept before their fathers arrived home.
SIX UNFAVORABLE CONSEQUENCES OF AN ABSENT FATHER
1. A complete stranger:
Many fathers who were absent when their children were growing up become complete strangers to their children.
Although many claim to be out in the cold looking for a way to keep the family afloat financially, this does not fill the void of the expected fatherly attention required by the children, and as a result, there is always a love-lost relationship between these fathers and their children because they do not have the opportunity to watch their children grow up under their capable care.
2. Go it alone:
Absentee fathers often walk alone in their old age as a result of the tension in their father-son or father-daughter relationships.
3. Insufficient free-flow communication:
Many never-present dads complain about a lack of free-flowing communication. This is because communication has always been limited to the provision of money requirements, leaving social and emotional needs unmet. When these fathers converse to their children, the flow of communication is usually restricted owing to the bleak relationship.
4. Lack of bonding:
The natural relationship that should exist between a father and his children is missing. These children, on the other hand, solely mention their fathers in person, with no further connection or strong attachment. Strong bonds are frequently destroyed by a shaky foundation.
5. A family tree that is incomplete or irrelevant:
When these kids sketch their family trees, they frequently refer to their fathers as "that man" or "never present dad" because they were never present when they were needed. When it comes to a financially successful but relationship-challenged father, this frequently leaves the family tree incomplete because the expression of joy is rarely observed.
6. Fathers are replaced by heroes:
When fathers are not physically present as they should be, this happens frequently. This is because youngsters who are exposed to television and unrestricted social media typically idolize their fathers' favorite football players or actresses. This is because they perceive in them the father figure that their real father never could. As a result, they just decide to adopt their heroes as their fathers.
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